The Sun + The Sea = An Invinsible Summer
July 3, 2009 at 11:37 pm | In Adventures, Oh! Life, Simply Blogging, Thoughts Horizon, Travelogues | 4 CommentsTags: at the beach, benefits from the sun, blue serenity, invinsible summer, on the beach, serenity at the beach, solitude, solitude at the beach, summer 2009, summer vacation, sun and sea, sunny day, tanned skin, warm summer
There’s nothing more enjoyable than waking up on warm summer morning to the birds chirping and the sun gleaming. And oh la la! The smell of suntan lotion in the air, and all the tanned souls walking around under the blue sky…
The promise of summer unfolds- a time to renew, recharge and be more in harmony with the world. Summer simply appears in all its glorious beauty. We become more relaxed, calmer and our mental state naturally alters in the warm rays of the sun. What’s not to love about summer?
Sure-fire, the heat can be uncomfortably hot and stuffy, but the benefits far overshadow the few negative things about summer. Taking a vacation and going down to beaches make you forget about things for a while.
Yes, the beach! Having the opportunity to dip your feet into the ocean (with cheery waves hugging your bare skin) makes you feel good. Life seems easier and lovelier in this season. Don’t you just love watching couples walking on the beach, some kissing on blanket on soft white sand? They look so romantic, don’t they?!
But what’s significant being at the beach is that you can feel the soothing effect of the sea. I could just sit on the sand and watch the breadth of the briny. The large ripples on ocean, curling over and falling as it reaches the shore, make you feel like you are being swept away into paradise. Moreover, you blank over the hassles of life and simply enjoy the cool water lapping at your feet as you contemplate your prescience into the horizon. Without a doubt, the sea has some potent power to make you think things you like to think. Even more amazing is looking at the clear blue sky- not a single cloud can be seen.
“To myself I am only a child playing on the beach, while vast oceans of truth lie undiscovered before me.-I.N.”
To boot, what else do you get from beaching? Tanned skin. Summer gives you a chance to put a little color into your fair skin before winter comes. Seeing your naturally sunburnt skin makes you feel sexier 
and gives you so much pleasure.
Most importantly, when all the good things about summer are well-thought-out, the feeling of solitude at the beach cannot be repudiated, even if you’re with friends, someone you love or family. And when you finally have gripped this so called blue serenity, the voice of the sea speaks to your soul as you feel at one with God’s grandest bequest of nature… Ahhh, summer.
Be off to the broad, blue sunny deep tomorrow again. Gonna enjoy the summer to my heart’s content and shouldn’t be just a couch potato, sitting inside blogging at all 
.
Enjoy your summer, everyone!
Wii!!! Nintendo Aficionado
June 26, 2009 at 3:00 pm | In Oh! Life, Simply Blogging, Thoughts Horizon | 2 CommentsTags: Nintendo Wii, Playstation, Wii Addict, Wii Fit, Wii Nintendo, Wii Play, Wii Sing, Wii Sports
I heart to Wii!!!
Are you addicted to Wii? I seem to be.
I’m not a geeky gamer but I really enjoy Wii Nintendo: Wii Fit, Wii Play, Wii Sing, Wii Sports etc. Back when I was still a teener, I’d seen my siblings played Mario or Playstation. I was happiest as their spectator rather than as a player.
But I am a spectator no more. I’ve learned how to get wired with Wii games and sports- Tennis, Baseball, Boxing, Bowling and Hula Hoop simply make shimmer, lol!
This is how I spend my time these days. Basically, when I’m not online, I’m either blowing tanks or Wii- boxing. Wii Play is what I’m diggin’ at the moment. It offers billiards, fishing, table tennis rally, shooting gallery, Mii poses, and a cow- riding race. ‘Tank battles’ is my darling game. I’ve actually reached Mission 18 but until now I can’t move up to Mission 20. Hide or attack, when playing tank battles I surely look like a war freak.
I have had a great 2 months of Nintendo Wii. It’s a great way of taking some time for a little stress management, aside from a long walk or jogs, primal scream or something along these lines. Imagine me playing hours of Wii tennis and Wii bowling continuously until my arms ache. It’s not exactly like the real thing- swing your arm across the room, but I’m learning some skills. With Wii Play, (whatever your age is) it tests your physical and mental reflexes.
This thing is getting under the techno line, but I still recommend you to get Wii a.s.a.p., if you don’t have one. It is loads of fun and exercise. You will definitely enjoy it! The coolest aspect of the games is the physical activity especially the Wii Fit.
Are you also a Wii addict (like me)? If you are, hit me up and let’s play!
Frizzy-Frisky-Freaky Friday
June 16, 2009 at 9:50 pm | In Oh! Life, Simply Blogging, Thoughts Horizon | 6 CommentsTags: 2009 summerfest, angel, booze, drinking experience, drunk experience, effects of alcohol, Freaky Friday, Friday Party, party, sober, taxi vomiting charges, vomiting in the cab, vomiting in the taxi
Windy- pouring- cold Friday afternoon, I hit the road for the party. The train dawdled; I wouldn’t get there in time. Such weather didn’t allow me to wear shoes. Thus, the rubber slippers made them ideal for wearing while walking under the rain. My umbrella had no use since the rain moved in different directions. Holding the umbrella, I struggled against the wind, running and I must say “This is a perfect weather for the 2009 SUMMER fest.”
When I finally got to the venue, everybody was rubbernecking at my unpleasantly wet feet. So I thoroughly dry them at once and put on the LV shoes. I was just on time for the ‘warm- up’ drink before setting off to the party hall. My colleagues were in high spirits to see me after a month- long vacay. It was exciting to see them all again.
The Party:
First course meal: Salmon with greenies
Entertainment: The Stand- up comedians- in their purple costumes
The Purplic Duo with the wannabe comedian
She also entertains the plants at the party
Chow: Buffet- your taste, your pick
Dessert: Almond Cake
Booze: Vodka, Cognac, Beer, Red and White wine, etc.
Party High Spots:
Chats with comrades
No to colas but yes to booze
Photo ops
Dance- like no one is watching. They bang, she bangs, he bangs, we bang! The dance enthusiasts were all out. So was I. The band was awesome- they made us want to dance even more. Kicked off our shoes and bopped on the floor.
Dancin' Barefoot
Most of time spent at the bash was dancing and drifting around.
:-)
Big boys don't gossip
Not so tipsy (^.^)
Had such a great time! Really cool people, cozy dance floor and amusing comedians.
Before the party ended, I and a colleague made our quiet exit. The rain gave up a bit when we walked to the train station. Unfortunately, we missed the last train. No option but to take a taxi. While my colleague was waiting for her hubby to pick her up, I was obliviously passing out on the bench. Good thing I didn’t get mugged, otherwise I might have lost my Gucci and LV stuff. Oh my geeezzz! For the first time this year, I got tanked up! As I was about to lose my consciousness, I felt my colleague shaking me “Hey, wake up. Your taxi is here.” I tried to get to my feet with my eyes padlocked and wobbly loaded my body into the taxi. The taxi driver interrogated “Is everything all right?” I alerted my senses, maintained my composure, acted sober and responded “Yes, I’m fine.” I pretended to look like a teetotaler for I was scared that he might do something crazy. My speech bubble spoke— Oh no no no. ‘Oh Lord, won’t you show me his halo? Turn him into an almost two winged angel.’ But in situation like this, there’s only one sure-fire way to appear sober- tell your address and keep your eyes wide open to show that you’re still up and about.
But no matter how sober you find you can act, if you’ve had too much alcohol, you just can’t hide it. The taxi driver of course wasn’t blind and stupid. He knew that I was three sheets to the wind. It was written all over my face. On the way, he asked me if I should pay with a card or cash. I said, ‘Visa card’. He subtly demanded me to hand him in my card before reaching home. However, as I dug my card out of my bag, I could feel the C2H5OH a.k.a. intoxicating alcohol streaming through my throat. I subsequently puked into the plastic bag with my slippers in it. Ewww, GROSS. Thank God I had that plastic with me, if not, I could have been charged with vomiting. “Barf in the taxi… you pay!”
After the throwing up stint, as requested, I handed him my Visa card. As soon as I’d paid, I apologized “I’m really sorry”, then I got off the cab. He didn’t say anything, instead, he pulled over at the roadside and opened all the car doors to take the ‘barf smell’ out of the cab. He wasn’t amused for sure and who would be?
(An angel was phoned to rescue me, THANK YOU.)
Headache, hangover, stiff neck and all intoxicating effects of the alcohol hardly lullabied me. The next day, I was still vomiting the different drinks out of my fibers. And my soles looked grimy with calluses and slightly battered caused by repeated friction on the dance floor.
Lesson Learned: Always drink responsibly and in moderation to avoid negative consequences? Nah, how about ‘When partying, bring with you an in case barfbag‘ I did drink responsibly, didn’t I? (can’t recall how much I glugged though, haha!). Just let me justify, maybe my body is no longer into booze.
THREE World Heritage Sites in a Day
May 18, 2009 at 10:27 am | In Adventures, Oh! Life, Travelogues | 15 CommentsTags: amazing tour, ancient circle of Stonehenge, architecture in England, Avon River, Bronze Age, Henry VIII, Jane Seymour, King Henry, London Trip, Merlin, prehistoric site in England, Pulteney Bridge, Queen Mary’s Dolls’ House, River Thames, Salisbury Plain, Spa water, St. George’s chapel, State Apartments, The Bath City, The Megalithic Ruin, The Roman Baths, The Stonehenge, Trip to London, Windsor Castle
Having learned that ‘Windsor, Bath and Stonehenge tour’ is the best- selling tour from London, I insisted that we should take the trip. I thought if I lucked out, I could get discount tickets by 10 %. It ended up costing £69 each, which is reasonable for a guided tour from London (better than flagging down bus after bus).
The most awaited day, Monday: Got up early, walked the track and waited for the tour bus in front of Marriott Hotel-Kensington. And as written on the voucher, the bus should pick us up at 7:45. We were there at 7:30. Along with the other excited tourists, we waited for the bus. At long last, a tour bus stopped by for pick up. The tour guide (holding a list) got off the bus and started checking her list. All of us, of course, presented our reservation tickets to the guide. But when we showed ours, she said “Apologies, haplessly, this is not your tour bus.” So we kept on waiting and no bus popped by to collect us. We waited in vain till 8:30am. With puckered brows, we hurried back to the hotel to bellyache about this. The receptionist telephoned the company and did the inquiry. Eventually, we were instructed to go to the office location where buses were waiting. We zoomed to the Tube, got on the train, ran like cheetahs and finally blowed in at Victoria Station in time for the 8:45 departure. Whew! The bus ended up leaving at 9 something though as a consequence of some chaotic list hitch.
TOUR DETAILS
Follow the Pink Umbrella
Presenting our Tour Guide holding her Pink Umbrella
I. WINDSOR CASTLE
Built high above the River Thames, Windsor Castle has been home to the Royal Family for 900 years and is still an Official Residence of the Queen. It’s the world’s largest and oldest castle.
Hello there! We're about to enter the Castle
To do and see:
(1) Visit the magnificent State Apartments at your leisure which are still used for State occasions and Royal receptions. The Apartments are made up of the drawing rooms, salons, ballrooms etc. The rooms themselves are striking- the paintings of previous monarchs, old weapons, world renowned artworks, wow! It’s simply spectacular.
(2) Visit the fourteenth-century St. George’s chapel, one of the most beautiful examples of medieval church architecture in England and a burial place of numerous kings and queens reside, notably Henry VIII and his third wife Jane Seymour
(3) Check out Queen Mary’s Dolls’ House and be amazed by the magnitude and intricate design of the world’s most famous Dolls’ House
By the time we got off the bus in Windsor, we took the trek up to the castle even without listening to the whole blah blahs of our pinky tour guide. The only distinct to me was: “Please follow my pink umbrella.” Ok, maybe she was implying she was the fairest of them (tour guides) all… haha! Peace coach, I’m just clowning. Pointing to the raised flag, our dear TG(tour guide) told us that the Queen was home but I didn’t spot her. But some did- lucky peeps! (The Queen’s flag, ‘the Royal Standard’, is raised at the top of the castle while she is there).
St. George’s chapel, the place of worship at Windsor Castle
We had about 1 & a half hours to spend in Windsor Castle; we didn’t see all the good stuff especially the changing of the guards due to time pressure.
1click=£1
BTW, when you’re posing for the camera with costumed people right outside the castle (particularly the part that faces the street), be sure that you have some pence in your pocket, I mean coins. They’re aware of you and the camera- one click demands 1gbp on their hands or coin baskets. Drop a pound, then you can take picture of them with you. Clever! Maybe I should wear a jaw-dropping costume and roam around the Castle, then and there, I can make some dosh, hahaha! Humor me.
LUNCH
Before hitting the next stop, the bus pulls in at a traditional English pub near Stonehenge where you can tantalize your taste buds with traditional British food.
II. MYSTERIOUS STONEHENGE
The very reason I’ve chosen this trip was all because of the Stonehenge. I like visiting sacred sites; they just have this elevated energy that can be felt but that feeling is unfathomable or profound on many levels. Sounds creepy.
Certainly the best known of all megalithic sites, Stonehenge stands in isolation on the undulating chalk of Salisbury Plain, west of Amesbury, between the busy A303 and A344 roads. At first sight this unique and enigmatic site appears smaller than imagined, but the tallest upright stone is 6.7m (22ft) high, with another 2.4m (8ft) below ground. The site is also a beautiful spot surrounded by burial mounts.
Got to admit, my mind had been excitedly thrilled to see the ‘mystery-clouded’ Stonehenge and I’d been itching to come up with my own theory about the Stones but I’ve got to see it first.
On the road: Marge, our tourist guide, was untiringly imparting her travel expertise while I, the diligent tourist, was up to jotting down notes. I’ve got no notebook with me so I just scribbled on a magazine (TIME) some appealing stuff from Marge’s tales. I’m actually turning pages at this moment to recollect what she told us on the bus. In advance, Marge asked us to feel the spirit of the Stonehenge so we could craft a concept of the mysterious stones. But why make a fuss out of those stones? “It’s just a pile of stones.” emphasized Kimberley.
The Megalithic Ruin and the Slaughter Stone
When we arrived at the site, some sounded thwarted… So this is the Stonehenge?! But if you look through the stones, there was something in them. As I wandered around, I got captivated by the unique rock formation: 40 ton rocks stand alone since their arrival 5,000 years ago. Being so near this mysterious settlement with its fascinating and ancient history gave me an apparitional feeling, I just delusionally assumed . This ancient circle of Stonehenge is indeed an amazing feat of engineering and the most important prehistoric site in England that’s surrounded by abundance of theories and is always overwhelmed with tourists
Outer Circle Tour
I was disappointed though for I didn’t get the chance to hug any of those stones even just for the sake of photo-ops. Tsk. Visitors are no longer permitted to touch the stones and the inside parts of Stonehenge have been long closed to tourists and visitors since 1974 because of vandalism. Back in the 19th century (so I’ve read), tourists were given a small hammer and pick to take a piece of Stonehenge home with them. But now, they require visitor to stand behind a rope about 30 feet away from the actual pile of rocks. However, by paying about double the entrance fee you get to step over the rope and walk through and touch the stones. But to obtain a pass for the “Inner Circle Tour”, you have to contact the Stonehenge visitor office by phone or email and set up an appointment. This inner circle tours are only allowed before and after normal visiting hours. We didn’t have time for this. Otherwise, we could have stayed longer there until all the visitors were gone! Just my spooky thought.
Free audios, that could guide us along the way, were also given to us but I didn’t spend my time listening to it while viewing. I’d rather take a lot of photos at the location. Regrettably, as we were speeding through, Kimberley forgot to get my “jumpy” signature photo. Also, asking strangers to take pictures of us wasn’t easy especially when you wanted some striking or jumping pics.
Pink Scarf can feel the Phantom!
Back to the mystery, “Who did build the Stonehenge?” This was Marge’s question that got stuck in my mind. Until now, I’m bewildered by the creation myths and I don’t know which one to believe and no one knows for sure the unquestionable history of Stonehenge.
So They Say:
a) Early legends link it with Merlin (the Wizard directing it to be removed from Ireland because of some superhuman giant) and King Arthur, but over the last hundred years the midsummer sunrise has attracted pagan groups and followers of the Ancient Order of Druids.
b) They also said that the stones were transported by slaves to create a religious temple.
c) Astronomically, this mysterious monument served as a clock, used for both the solar and lunar calendars.
d) Archaeological Significance: The Stonehenge was a Bronze Age burial ground.
Interestingly enough… Once you see it, decide for yourself whether Stonehenge was a place of sun worship, a healing sanctuary, a sacred burial place, a site for a planned temple or something different altogether. Who says Stonehenge is not worth seeing? It’s just a pile of stones, but I got stoned when I saw it .
Written at Stonehenge
Thou noblest monument of Albion’s isle!
Whether by Merlin’s aid, from Scythia’s shore,
To Amber’s fatal plain Pendragon bore,
Huge frame of giant-hands, the mighty pile
T’ entomb his Britons slain by Hengist’s guile:
Or Druid priests, sprinkled with human gore,
Taught ‘mid thy massy maze their mystic lore:
Or Danish chiefs, enrich’d with savage spoil,
To Victory’s idol vast, an unhewn shrine,
Rear’d the rude heap: or, in thy hallow’d round,
Repose the kings of Brutus’ genuine line;
Or here those kings in solemn state were crown’d:
Studious to trace thy wondrous origine,
We muse on many an ancient tale renown’d.
Thomas Warton the younger, 1777
III. THE BATH
-the England’s most beautiful Georgian City
Taking THE BATH CITY was the last leg of the day. Our trip here was as reinvigorating as taking a plunge into a natural hot spring. Dubbed a World Heritage Site in 1987, the breathtaking beauty of Bath is surrounded by other equally splendid examples of the heavenly English countryside including the Cotswolds, Somerset and Wilshire. More to the fact, Bath was the first city in England to receive this prestige and proudly stands on the slopes of the River Avon.
The City of Bath is also one of the most famous secrets of England because it’s still partly undiscovered. Nearly 2,000 years ago the Romans established a complicated system of baths and a Sacred Temple. This city is a vibrant place in middle England with numerous galleries, theatres, restaurants, tea rooms and excellent shopping areas.
To do and see:
a) Enjoy a whistle stop tour of Bath’s famous monuments from the comfort of your seat.
b) Take in Bath Abbey, which saw the coronation of the first British King in 973AD. On the front of the church, there are angels climbing the ladders to heaven on the outside of the stonework.
c) Admire the architecture of the stunning Royal Crescent.
d) Marvel at the famous Pulteney Bridge, modelled on the Florentine Ponte Vecchio.
e) Explore the Roman Baths, built around thermal springs, which have been supplying water for over 2,000 years. In Roman times, a great Temple was built next to the sacred spring – the waters were believed to have healing properties and attracted visitors from across the Roman Empire.
The Reincarnated Roman gods and goddess,lol!
Sacred Spring Overflow
The Cold Circular Bath- throw a coin and make a wish!
When we were lining up to get inside the temple, it so happened that we were at the back of the queue, hence, we didn’t get what our tour guide had just said. And for us not to be misled, we pleaded for the rewind of her directive utterances. What we got was nagging words . “What? You didn’t hear what I said?!” said she cantankerously.
Me: “Well, we were at the back so we couldn’t hear yah.” She then exasperatingly repeated what she just said and gave us plastic money chips for the entry and for a glass of Spa water.
As we ducked in, we were given (as usual) a little audio guides that looked like the very first models of cell phones, to help us understand the sights and every room we entered and passed by.
The Great Bath
Bath houses are the best preserved Roman Spa from the ancient world. The Great Central Bath has a greenish shade and the water itself was very hot. It looked more like a swimming pool with nice pillars and old statues surrounding the site. You might think the water was clean but never get tempted to dip your hands in it; it’s been actually infested with different pests, rats and other germy creatures over the years.
THE PUMP ROOM
The Pump Room
I was grinning when I saw the label of this room, couldn’t help myself Pump Room? Pumping what? Pump, the magic water! As I walked in, I told the lady in charge that I had a ticket, so she gave me a glass of the famous Spa water- a glass cost 50pence. I enjoyed drinking the water straight from the historic Pump Room, others didn’t because of its weird taste. Believing that the spa water has a magical-rejuvenating effect, I lapped up all that was given to me, to the last drop! The spa water was quite hot and had an unexplainable flavor.
SPA water fountain
Out of the Baths: There is a lot to see in the Roman Baths- artifacts, millennia- old coins and mosaics. Sadly, we didn’t have enough time to explore everything inside because we decided to see more of this Georgian City. Some chose to stay put in the Bath instead of going around as we only had less than an hour left before leaving the city.
Pulteney Bridge over the River Avon
After trotting around the Roman Baths, we sped off to have a glimpse of the city. We strolled around and took some photos of the River Avon and the Pulteney Bridge; it was a marvelous site, I so admired the city’s architectural splendour.
River Avon: While catching sight of the River, I was reminded by one of the remarkable things from the talkies of our tour guide- about the Avon River. The River Avon is a river in the south west of England. Because of a number of other Rivers Avon in England, this river is often also known as the Lower Avon or Bristol Avon. The Avon rises near Chipping Sodbury in Gloucestershire, dividing into two before merging again and flowing through Wiltshire. In its lower reaches from Bath to the River Severn at Avonmouth near Bristol the river is navigable and known as the “Avon Navigation”.
According to her, the name Avon is a cognate of the Welsh word ‘afon’ meaning “river” (f is pronounced as v in Welsh), so if you put these 2 words together, you call the river “River River” .
As soon as we were done with pictorials, we headed back to the bus and went home. We got back to London around 8pm after 350 miles of travel. T’was a looong day but all in all it was an amazing voyage… zzz…
One Day, Three World Heritage Sites
Just a Memo: This trip runs for almost 12 hours but it gives you a brief time to see some wonderful sights. Here’s the deal: You will never get to see everything at Windsor and Bath because the tour is like ‘hit and run’ or ‘touch and go’. There is so much to explore at these sites. But since the tour company was such in a hurry to get to the next destination, we never even had time to sit down, enjoy the site and pore over the enchantment of the place. Walked fast, peeked in, took photos, and then rushed back to the bus. Don’t ever think about getting late for the bus or you’d get chewed out. Well, they were just doing their job. A million thanks to Marge (our coach) and Derek (the bus driver) for this great trip!
TOP 10 Bits of London
April 28, 2009 at 11:16 pm | In Adventures, Oh! Life, Simply Blogging, Travelogues | 9 CommentsTags: bits of London, Buckingham Palace and Changing of the Guard, Covent Garden, London Eye, London Trip, Oyster Card, Piccadilly Circus, St. Paul’s Cathedral, The Houses of Parliament and the Big Ben, The Royal Parks, The Tower of London and Crown Jewels, Trafalgar Square, Westminster Abbey
London is full of take- your –breath- away views and vistas. With its hilly terrain and marvelous buildings, anyone can have the opportunity to behold the city’s many facets and angles. By getting around London, I have seen as much of life as the world can show. The city has served me well, I think. I am so grateful that we have discovered and explored ‘the most visited attractions’ in the city with the help of public transport (bus, Tube, Tram, Overground, etc.), Oyster card, and flat shoes… London is perfect for seeing the sights on foot.
By the way, before I forget , for the first time during our stay in London, I was able feel to the spirit of Shakespeare, one of my favorite English literature icons. If W. Shakespeare were still alive, I would make a way to see him in the flesh and ask him to write a poem dedicated to me, col (chuckling out loud)! Anyway, I am sure most of you are either bored stiff or cheesed off at this point so I shall move on.
Since I have already recapped a bit of our London trek, let me just enumerate some of the tour highlights by picking the Top 10 major bits to see or do in London. These are the landmarks you should not miss. And apart from these, there are so many other tourist attractions that can be looked for when visiting London.
(1) London Eye
London Eye
Take a spin on this Ferris wheel overlooking the Thames. More than a Ferris wheel ride — London Eye’s rotating attraction offers 32 enclosed capsules for full, 360 degree views of historic London.
The London Eye is a major feature of London’s skyline. It is the world’s highest cantilevered observation wheel and offers passengers spectacular views of over 55 of London’s most famous landmarks – all in just 30 minutes. And while taking in the amazing views, you can enjoy a glass of champagne to spoil yourself. Champagne flight normally costs £35.
Tickets to Buy
(2) Westminster Abbey
The Abbey
Westminster Abbey is neither a cathedral nor a parish church. It is a Gothic monastery church owned by the royal family. When you pay visit here during the day, you can attend a church service for free. An architectural masterpiece of the 13th to 16th centuries, the Abbey has been both the coronation and burial site of English monarchs since William the Conqueror.
(3) The Houses of Parliament and the Big Ben
The Parliament
The House of Parliament is one of the largest parliaments in the world. Dating back to the nineteenth century, it contains about 1,200 rooms and displays intricate architecture and holds ceremonial events. The House of Parliament is also known as The Palace of Westminster. It is where two Houses of the Parliament of the United Kingdom meet: the House of Lords and the House of Commons.
Big Ben: When I first heard about “Big Ben”, the image that came to my mind was the famous tower, or the four huge clock faces. However, during my stay in London, I’ve learned (from a planner booklet) that Big Ben actually refers to the largest of the five bells inside the clock tower. In other words, “Big Ben” does not refer to the whole clock tower, but to the huge thirteen ton bell that strikes the hour.
Jumping for Joy
Another theory that I’ve proven wrong was that the bell was named after a popular heavyweight boxer Benjamin Caunt. The consensus however, seems to be that it was named after Sir Benjamin Hall, a (literally) weighty politician of the time who was the Parliamentary Commissioner of Works.
Parliament is open to the UK public and overseas visitors. You can attend debates, watch committee hearings and tour the buildings. Beware, MPs have absurdly long holidays or “recesses”.
(4) Trafalgar Square
National Gallery
Trafalgar commemorates the Battle of Trafalgar (1805), a British naval victory of the Napoleonic Wars. Trafalgar Square is the largest square in London and has been a central meeting place since the Middle Ages.
What makes it ‘the Square’: Nelsons Column surrounded by 4 bronze lions, the National Gallery, Fountains and statues , including one of Charles I on horseback, and of course the pigeons. The Column itself is some 170 foot high, with the statue of Nelson himself being some 18 foot high.
(5) Piccadilly Circus
Spending hours hanging out in here, you will see street performers, travellers, and busy business types wearing pink ties with blackberry as their weapon. If you are into books, you can hit the Europe’s largest bookshop, the Waterstone’s Piccadily bookstores, situated in the heart of London’s West End.
Piccadilly Circus
The name ‘Piccadilly’ originates from a 17th century frilled collar named piccadil. Roger Baker, the tailor who became rich making piccadils lived in the area. The word ‘Circus’ refers to the roundabout around which the traffic circulated. Piccadilly Circus is a good place to meet before heading off to eat, shop or go to area theaters. Soho isn’t too far a walk from here and neither is Trafalgar Square. The fashionable stores of Carnaby Street are also nearby. The area is quite a sight in the evening, with colorful and brightly lit advertising signs illuminating the area, high above the streets.
Further, Piccadilly Circus is an intersection where five roads meet; it is most famous for the advertising signs that light up the sky at night. It is London’s version of Times Square and the first ever lighted neighborhood in the world. People crowd around the steps of the statue known as Eros, the Greek God of Love (but really meant to be the angel of charity), erected in 1892 as a memorial to the Earl of Shaftsbury, the Victorian philanthropist. I didn’t dare to take a seat here though. The bustling noise made me giddy.
(6) The Royal Parks
Spring is a glorious time to discover London. With blossoming flowers and warmer-brighter days, and the great outdoors bursting into life, there’s no better time to venture outside and embrace the wonderful history and culture that London has to offer. London is blessed with eight royal parks offering 5,000 acres of historic parkland – and entrance is free! (but not the chairs). The grass carpet will serve as your bed when you get tired of walking . You can read book too, while savoring the crispy breeze. We had a lovely stroll through the park on a beautiful sunny day.
(7) Buckingham Palace and Changing of the Guard
It’s the Queen’s home. Tourists love to go to see Buckingham Palace not because they wanna see the Queen but to witness the colorful ceremony of the Changing of the Guard: Accompanied by a military band, a detachment of the Queen’s Foot Guard march to Buckingham Palace in their bearskins and red tunes, and change with the Old Guard. Yes, we strolled around and in front of the palace and mingled with groupie tourists, unluckily, we missed the Changing of the Guard.
Surrounded by vast park lands and gardens, this grand palace has been the Royal London residence since Queen Victoria’s time, and contains priceless works of art, fine furniture and decorations that form part of the Royal Collection.
(8) The Tower of London and Crown Jewels
You wanna get bloodily fascinated? Try the “bloody tower” and find out about the story of the two princes that mysteriously were murdered there.
The Tower of London is one of the most famous fortified buildings in the world. If you are in London, place the Tower of London under your ‘must see’ list.
(9) Covent Garden
No trip to London (or nywhere in the world) is complete without shopping experience. London boasts cutting- edge fashion houses, world famous department stores and quirky shops that are full of intrigue and wonder, making for a truly unique experience. Covent Garden offers a world- class cultural experience as well as excellent shopping. Talking about shopping, even if you close your eyes, it would be hard for you to resist some tempting shops; you might as well get carried away
Primark is also a ‘going for a song’ shop but difficult to navigate. It is always jam-packed with shopaholics and the long dressing room lines… OMG! Anyone impatient like me, standing in queue was a No way José! So I just did the ‘pick and grab your size’ thing then zoomed to a cashier. I thought I could dodge the long lines but getting face to face with a cashier was another course of action. Sigh!
(10) St. Paul’s Cathedral
To experience the whole of St. Paul’s Cathedral, you should climb 220 stairs to the enormous dome and Whispering Gallery and on to the heights of the Golden Gallery above the Dome with its panoramic views of the capital.
St. Paul’s Cathedral is so much a part of London skyline. In recent years, it has seen the wedding of Charles, Prince of Wales, to Lady Diana Spencer and, most recently, the thanksgiving services for both the Golden Jubilee and 80th Birthday of Her Majesty of the Queen.
St. Paul's Cathedral
That’s all for now.
Note: I have tried to mount numerous pictures but I got tired of uploading them to the galleries one by one. Time-demanding.
So This Is London
April 13, 2009 at 8:08 pm | In Adventures, Oh! Life, Simply Blogging, Thoughts Horizon, Travelogues | 4 CommentsTags: Big Ben, Brits, G20 2009, Londn street, London, London tour 2009, London train, Obama in London, Routemaster, the London Eye, the Tube, The Underground, Trafalgar Square, Westminster Abbey
So, this is London! The line I uttered upon arriving at the airport at 6pm , March 31, 2009- the same day that Obama and other leaders of G20 arrived in London for the summit.
Catching the train to the next station to the underground, I had a good time clicking the camera as I feasted my eyes on the views from the train. If you’re a first- timer in London, you’ll wonder why houses here have small and few windows- a question mark that we’ve been querying since we stepped into this ‘has it all’ place until the lady tour guide told us about the Law on Window in UK.
Finding our way to the hotel wasn’t that hard. You bet. It was fun getting lost as always. The Underground (aka Subway) was also stressful. It was a maze of passages and tubes, literally. Anyone would need a crash course on it.
look right, look left
RHT. Despite having been to other countries (e.g. Thailand) that have the right-hand traffic (RHT), I still haven’t learned my lesson. For me, this system is still confusing and will always be. But that’s the rule of the road in London. It was a lot different from what I’m used to. No worries though- if you have been looking for traffic left to right (your entire life) before crossing the street, the signs can save your life.
To get in as much sightseeing as I could in my first day in London, I tried to get up the next day (April 1) notwithstanding the jet-lagged mind and body. We first visited the University of London to get some infos and hand-outs, and then set out to the underground to check on the gorgeous sights. First Leg: London Eye, Big Ben, Westminster Abbey, Trafalgar Square, etc. Do Brits realize how wonderful London really is? I hope so.
A Federal Mega University Made Up of 31 Affiliates
The London Eye- height:135 metres (443 ft). It's the biggest Ferris wheel in Europe
The Collegiate Church of St Peter at Westminster
Big Ben- The World's Famous Clock
Trafalgar Square Monument- at its centre is Nelson's Column
The things I’ve seen here lived up to expectations. Emmm… except for the Big Ben. It was a bit smaller than I originally thought. Well, it wasn’t my first time to experience such. When I first saw the Moulin Rouge in Paris, I was a bit disappointed. I thought it was a huge Red Windmill… it’s not.
A sense of direction. Unluckily, you can’t rely on me when it comes to maps. That’s the irony of me- a traveler who sucks at direction. Thanks Mik2, maps are just in the palm of your hands. To get a glimpse of the metropolis, we thought that it would be a great idea to take the Routemaster where we could sit-relax on the upper deck. This way, we could also go sightseeing by simply parking our feet on the bus minus a tour guide piloting us. But it turned out that taking the bus wasn’t really the best way for us to get to the planned destination. In the first few days we’ve gotten on the wrong bus and ended up much farther from where we were meant to go, not only once, but all the time. Knowing how to decipher maps from dot to dot is as essential as understanding what trains have transfer points to what lines. But even if they have the Tube, I advice you to take a Walk around London first and see what the Capital has to offer. With free maps and guides available at the hotel or stations, the routes in the leaflets will ensure you see all the sights and enjoy your moment in London.
Sightseeing is no doubt fun but marching to and from many places can be exhausting. My feet hurt and burnt so bad that at the end of a day I couldn’t walk. Everyday was a tour day- long walk, long street but worth every step.
You have to see the city for yourself. There’s lot to explore, lot to do. It’s not the cheapest place in the world, but it still rocks!
This is the London Trip Part One. More to tell.
On Board
March 31, 2009 at 6:06 am | In Adventures, Travelogues | 3 CommentsTags: adventure, finest city in europe, London, maps, River Thames, tour, travelling
(By the time you read this, I’ll be on the flight. Hurray!)
It is Europe’s largest city, spanning more than six hundred and twenty square miles from its heart on the River Thames. It is Europe’s most diverse metropolises: there are around two hundred languages spoken within its confines, and more than thirty percent of the population is made up of first, second and third generation immigrants.
This city boasts four World Heritage Sites, 238 attractions that are free to enter (so there’s nowhere else in the world where you can see so much for so little).
As everybody attests, it is one of the finest capital cities to be found anywhere. I could say therefore, that one will have absolutely no chance of getting disappointed when he or she comes to visit the city.
I’m so excited to go around this city. It’s gonna be a great adventure and I’m gonna enjoy every bit of it. Mik-mik, get ready to rock the city! Be sure to connect the dots from A to B on the map .
A Wise Spender Looks Twice
March 17, 2009 at 2:26 pm | In Simply Blogging, Thoughts Horizon, Vanity | 4 CommentsTags: coats, false economy, fashion, financial planning, latest styles, living beyond your means, Personal Money Management, quality coats, shopaholic, SPRING preparation, spring ready, wise spender, Wool & Cashmere coat
It has been a while since my last post, again… Time just slipped away, again and again… I wonder where I’ve gone aside from tripping around Sweden and blowing pretty bubbles in the air. The clock runs a little fast that make days go really past and it’s SPRING already- flowers to bloom, the sun zooms in and my gear is on the brooom brooom brooom!
It was a beautiful sunny day. The clear blue sky just made my day. And since I was grinning like the sun today, I hit the mall and treated myself to this soft, lightweight Wool-Cashmere Coat (Italy Made). It made my face even much sunnier. After trying it on, inspecting its fabrics, verifying the buttons and buttonholes and examining the hems, I fell in love with the coat, eventually. You’ve got to pay a good chunk of change for this original coat. Questions weighed up: Do I really need this or I just want it?! Both. To redundantly express how ‘big time’ I wanted the coat- over and above, I ought to give myself a fresh SPRING look (chuckles!). Hence, no teeny doubt, I splashed out on it. (Woolicious & CASHmore coat, so to alter.)
Look Twice: “Buy the best you can and buy less. Good quality coats and clothes cost money, but you won’t regret it.” It may sound vain but it’s worth buying things that make you look amazing and that will keep you up with your poise. But wait a minute, as I claim myself a ‘wise spender’, I ask as I scribble this down- did my impulse beat me today? I just bought a leather jacket last month plus my not-so-old coats are just hanging in the closet, unused. If they could only talk, they would scream out loud “Please use and wear us!”
Let’s face it, most people think (as I used to think and still do sometimes) that splurging their hard- earned money into something cheap is a great idea to save up but it’s not. It’s actually a false economy. I’m not saying that you go making impulsive purchases just because you see everyone else decking out in the latest styles. That isn’t a green light for you to let loose of the “Living Beyond Your Means” cliché. But unless you have your own moneymaking machine, you go ahead and have fun at buying ALL the stuff you wish to have . But just remember to implement your plans of spending wisely before ending up like a spendthrift- Manhattan shopaholic.
Chew on this for a moment: Personal Money Management. I totally understand that it is not easy to drop a penny into a piggy bank especially when you live in a material world nowadays. However, if you possess a sound financial planning and an incredible, practical judgement, it will help you put on the brakes before you jump into a spend-pen, and wisely gauge just how much fashion you can afford. Blah! Blah! Blah! GUCCI, CK, LV, PRADA, CARTIER, etc., BURBERRY coat, ANYONE?
A Grip of Double R&R
March 3, 2009 at 9:13 pm | In Oh! Life, Simply Blogging, Thoughts Horizon | 5 CommentsTags: enjoying life, goals, lame excuses, life, R&R, realization, responsibility, rest and realax
So much going on, so little time to write. This time of year is tough to get things done.
The past few weeks have been so extreme and exhausting: Having accomplished my target at work driven by mundaneness, busting gym and then being able to attend a university orientation, and being inspired by the passionate sharers and speakers, made me humbly alive again. I could feel the energy of students in the hall. That’s where I get my vigor- attentive, listening crowd.
This week however, I’m taking a double R&R. Of Army, R&R stands for Rest and Relaxation. I’m a soldier of life (not in uniform) who needs R&R- so here I am, having a good time resting and relaxing from stressing list of appointments and commitments, afterwhich, I’ll get back on the move when I feel my fuel has levelled up. And even though I managed to spank myself just to pull up a seat right now, still, part of me is craving a little action that’s why I’m getting a grip on the other R&R- Responsibility and Realization. I’ve been denying the immediacy of my responsibility to realize my dismissed and coveted goals. I guess it’s time to dig a hole and put my excuses in it. Lame excuses- I have a lot. And I’ve been constantly using them to keep my aims on hold. Rationalizing, is it because it takes an overwhelming amount of effort to achieve a race’s end? Not as it should be. Looking back, what the heck was I thinking then? I’ve been goofing off.
So, I’m taking a double R&R (Rest and Relaxation) to kick back then, bounce back to take in hand my personal Responsibility & make my missions into Realization. Oh, it just made me smile that I’ve taken a small step and I hope, and I hope and I hope that I become hard as nails that no matter how tough the hammers of life are, I stay calm, cool, focused and collected.
That, my friends, is the sermon for the day, not for you, but for me.
Get a life-get a grip
Get away somewhere, take a trip
Take a break-take control
Take advice from someone you know
CHORUS:
Come on over-come on in
Pull up a seat-take a load off your feet
Come on over-come on in
You can unwind-take a load off your mind
Make a wish-make a move
Make up your mind-you can choose
When you’re up-when you’re down
When you need a laugh come around
Repeat CHORUS
Oh, oh, oh…
Be a winner-be a star
Be happy to be who you are
Gotta be yourself-gotta make a plan
Gotta go for it while you can
Repeat CHORUS
Get a life-get a grip
Get away somewhere, take a trip
Take a break-take control
Take advice from someone you know
Repeat CHORUS
Oh, oh, oh…
I Love Challenges!
February 18, 2009 at 11:52 pm | In Oh! Life, Simply Blogging, Thoughts Horizon | 5 CommentsTags: challenges, fulfillment, life, motivation, outstanding work, positive envy, self- motivation
Say it out loud- “I LOVE CHALLENGES!”
When I looked through the summary report of the workforce’s performance posted on the entrance wall a week ago, the highlighted name of a colleague got stuck in my eyes and in my head like glue. For the first time this year, somebody got acknowledged by her outstanding work. I have to admit it made me green with envy, not in a negative sense. I’ve actually been toiling with this ‘donkeywork’, so to speak, but never felt really fulfilled. Suddenly, a motivational envy pumped me up. I reversed envy into challenge and it surely was a healthy dose of vitamin E (Envy). That word ‘E’ is perfectly normal as long as you use it positively. I always think of it as fuel to drive my way to attaining a goal, worthy or not.
Hitting the road on my way home that day, I told myself, “If she can, why can’t I…?” That was the time I took a shot of vitamin C (Challenge). Going back to E, envy could constructively add flavor to your work, as it did to mine, that makes competition more exciting. I hope I don’t come across as ‘the green-eyed monster’. No, I’m not. I was just ignited by the idea of achieving something that I believe I can by channelling my energies to what is supposed to be done. Crunch this, there’s no need for you to envy somebody or anybody. You just have to use the person you envy not as someone to compete with but someone to emulate. Mind you, being challenged, I was also working ‘ridiculously crazy’. Trying to surpass what she has accomplished was like climbing up a pole until I reached the flag of a feat (all the reason to stick to the job for a while).
Yesterday, when I walked by the news flash board, my heart missed a bit when I saw my name on the list highlighted in green neon, not only on one sheet but two. Ho ho ho! That’s what you call PL (Performance Level) to the max twinned by another PL (Passion-Liveliness/ joie de vivre!). I don’t intend to blow my own horn by putting this down here. I just wanted to underscore that finally, my hard work has paid off at least in that manner. What do I get from that? Talk to the hands of the company system! Not negotiable- no incentive, no bucks handed in, no extra cheque, no “employee of the month” award plaque but it definitely made me ‘a bit’ fulfilled, lol! I’m not a person who only works for the sake of money but for self- actualization cause as long as a challenge could boost me up when I feel that my motivation is waning.
Global Crisis Bites
February 5, 2009 at 8:30 pm | In Oh! Life, Simply Blogging, Thoughts Horizon | 5 CommentsTags: Financial turmoil, getting fired, Global Crisis, Global crisis impact, unemployment, work
Today, as the boss read the company’s annual report, she couldn’t help her hands from trembling as she ad-libbed “this is irritating.” Her face was much gloomier than the murky Thursday weather. It’s an awful task, one that most bosses or managers want to be done with as quickly as possible. I, myself, was in that position years ago so I do understand how she felt. For me, firing is like weeding out your floral garden. After a careful cultivation, time comes that you have to get rid of some… for odd-rationale. Between a boss and a person in charge, evaluations usually happen behind closed doors where the decision is made. And when the annual report day rolls up, the decision is being relayed to the person most affected, then voilà, sacking is being executed.
An ugly head of the financial turmoil has already popped out. It’s indeed snapping. A number of employees got fired, 2 male colleagues in our department. It’s a terrible day. Everybody has extended sympathies to those two. I didn’t cry 
as some did to show how sorry they were. Instead, I put some chocolates that I brought with me in a big bowl to release the tension among them. They love sweets that at 1pm, the bowl got emptied. Even though I didn’t display any fellow feeling as the two bid goodbye, in my mind, “Something good will come along their way.”
O mighty wolf howl so loud, so does the global financial crunch. Connotatively, ‘wolves are actually at every country’s door.’ It’s deeply felt and vividly seen. No matter how confident, capable, or efficient you may have thought you were, getting terminated can bring you to your second- guessing knees. This increase of global unemployment is just one of the impacts of the crisis that continues to spread all over the world. Fretting it is. Well, it’s not always been easy to stay positive through this appalling crisis, but I hope we stay cheerful and buoyant. Life goes on!
By the way highway, it’s not my responsibility to offer a solution to every whim of concern for I don’t have any government handout, nor do I collect tax
Change Flaaash!
January 27, 2009 at 4:54 pm | In Oh! Life, Simply Blogging, Thoughts Horizon | 4 CommentsTags: change, cleaning closet, colors, HOME, mantra, moods, old and new attitudes, painting apartment
With my habit of rearranging/ changing things around or changing my mind all the time, it makes more sense for me to have something that will be easily taken down to CHANGE.
The Plan C- Change
This has always been my mantra and that allows me to do a change inventory on a regular basis. As I dip my toes into 2009, I’m trying to change something about my old thinking. Old thinking that’s not worth carrying around and isn’t producing right actions. The same holds true with a stuffed closet- you have many unused or old clothes in it, there’s no room for the new clothes. Sometimes you gotta let go of the old things, old attitudes… purge yourself and get rid of the bad or old stuff that are no longer nifty and you’ve got to make a room for change.
the white job
“Change means actions. If you don’t like something, change it.” Change is therapeutic. It somehow eases your ‘worked up’ senses. If you can recognize change as a basic principle, you can also do the basic things that you’ve been ignoring before. So let the change saga begin: pampering the flat to make it “a home” like hanging new draperies, organizing book shelves, mounting wall decors and painting the wall. How many of you try to make your apartment feel more like HOME by painting or replacing things to your liking? Painting your apartment is really FUN! The color that you paint your walls can help promote certain moods and can reflect on your decorative capabilities in huge ways. Changing dull gray walls to a shimmering white or splashing a fresh coat of gleaming white paint on a serene but agitated yellow living room can wondrously revolutionize your flat; your mood likewise. It just seems so much nicer now and more like home
Out of the Strike Zone
January 20, 2009 at 1:59 pm | In Oh! Life, Simply Blogging, Thoughts Horizon | 6 CommentsTags: Gandhi, hunger strike, Israel- Gaza conflict, World Peace
People at work keep asking me why I don’t go to the canteen for lunch these days. Excuses like -I don’t have time- I lost track of the time so I forgot to eat- I have no appetite etc.- sound lame and inexcusable but I let myself off anyway from grabbing some grub. I am not on a diet; in fact, I love to eat. I am not trying to kill ‘me’ either. I am neither anorexic nor bulimic. And Mahatma Gandhi has nothing to do with this at all.
Lemmi tell you what has gotten into me. “I am on a fractional hunger strike: to stop the war between Israel and Gaza.” Yes, I am a hunger protester (but not unto death) until the war is over! But why fractional? I don’t miss my dinner:-). Hunger-striking for me is a way to connect physically with what I feel emotionally and what I know mentally. The slight damage that I’m doing to my body is nowhere near the devastation that people of Israel and Gaza have faced because of the bombings causing vast scale of death and destruction.
And how do I survive the ‘all- day- long’ work without breakfast and lunch? An apple or a carrot and water are enough to keep my brain ticking. Undertaking this blue out, unsponsored walkathon is a part of the protest. I’m not the walkingest person around but for a speck of world peace, I’d work at it. Venturing out into the sunny, but sub-zero Saturday afternoon was fun but not cool. As I endured the cold, my gloved hands were adventurously steady because they were frozenly dead. While walking, boy! I was shivering inside, “Now shall I still walk or shall I ride?” I opted to walk. Geezzz, the frozen north wind was stinging my skin. Every molecule of the airstream was like an acupuncture needle stabbed deep into my flesh penetrating into my joints and into the marrow of my bones. Yeah, outdoor walk seemed like a good idea, but not on winter days.
These insane ideas of strike popped up one day when I saw the videos of some students who were trying to get through to their families in Gaza. But whenever they got a chance to hook up, all they could hear was the deafening sound of bombs on the other line. Thanks to the internet! Their histrionic message- “Urgent humanitarian access for the people of Gaza”- was relayed to the world via www.
Today, after reading the headline news “Israel declares Gaza cease- fire”, I am breaking my fast as they halt the fire and I am out of the strike zone for now. Yipeee!
I don’t know if the things I’ve done are significant or trivial. But what I do know is that I didn’t do them for the sake of just doing them. My intention is anchored off the PEACE coast. Crazy, I think, I can do better than these.
Loose Nerve
January 11, 2009 at 8:13 pm | In Oh! Life, Simply Blogging, Thoughts Horizon | 7 CommentsTags: eccentricity, freedom, thoughts
release your inhibitions...
Embrace your inner eccentric and try not to edit yourself — so what if you raise a few eyebrows, or provoke people into wondering what’s up with you? Their opinions matter less than the freedom you will feel by doing what you want to do in the way you want to do it! Trying to fit in with the status quo all the time is not only exhausting, it limits your creativity! So let your freak flag fly — ignore propriety and you are likely to inspire a few of your more adventurous friends to join you.
Cats Talk?
January 5, 2009 at 7:47 pm | In Simply Blogging | 8 CommentsTags: cat talks, cats, funny, kitty, pet
If you are a cat lover like me, you might have also wondered “what on earth is my cat meowing about?”. I like translating a language to another language but when it comes to cats’ lingo, I’m not fully equipped to decode such. Basically, cats talk cryptically. I’ve been a keen observer of cats since childhood; hence I notice that cats make a variety of different weird sounds. I don’t wanna claim that my cat speaks a number of recognizable sounds but he really does. Even so, bit by bit I’m learning to read between the ‘meows’. A strange/ non-sense, albeit funny thought- there’s one sound I’ve been waiting to hear from my cat- his fart. It sounds totally gross but he skunkingly farts whenever he eats wet food aside from his kibble. I wanna hear him fart so I could at least wave him away before I get suffocated from his potent and utterly foul gas.
Another sound that’s eminently heard from cats is the purr. Though to most of us, the purr is often considered a sign of contentment, it also suggests a therapeutic function (the sense of relaxation) to humans that can be felt of course by cat owners when cuddling a purring cat- according to vets. Some cat owners aver that their cats can actually voice out “words”. Do they really think so? Cats’ sounds don’t conform to our concept of grammatical structure so we cannot really label cats’ sounds as words. Cats are just cats. Yes, they are smart but they lack language.
The way I understood/ understand my cat’s meows is by paying attention to his tone, rhythm, pitch, volume, and phonation. A cat-aholic as I am, I had to agree with Jean Craighead George that felines’ sounds vary according to their age, gender, and situation.
Kittens:
• Mew (high pitched and thin) – a polite plea for help
• MEW! (loud and frantic) – an urgent plea for help
Adult cats:
• mew – plea for attention
• mew (soundless) – a very polite plea for attention (this is Paul Gallico’s “Silent Miaow” which is probably a sound pitched too high for human ears)
• meow – emphatic plea for attention
• MEOW! – a command!
• mee-o-ow (with falling cadence) – protest or whine
• MEE-o-ow (shrill whine) – stronger protest
• MYUP! (short, sharp, single note) – righteous indignation
• MEOW! Meow! (repeated) – panicky call for help
• mier-r-r-ow (chirrup with liting cadence) – friendly greeting
Tomcats:
• RR-YOWWW-EEOW-RR-YOW-OR – caterwaul
• merrow – challenge to another male
• meriow – courting call to female
Mother cats:
• MEE-OW – come and get it!
• meOW – follow me!
• ME R-R-R-ROW – take cover!
• mer ROW! – No! or Stop It!
• mreeeep (burbled) – hello greeting to kittens and disarming greeting to adult cats (also used between adult cats and humans)
New Year’s Pledge
January 1, 2009 at 2:48 pm | In Oh! Life, Simply Blogging, Thoughts Horizon | 5 CommentsIt’s 2009… How fast the year seems to have passed!
And how I love New Year- it brings wild pledges of self- improvement. I bet most of you have listed or made resolutions about your lifestyle changes. If you’re that kind of person who strictly follow your resolutions, then you deserve my salute. I’m not a person who makes resolutions at the start of the year. What I do is just look back to the past and try to reflect on the changes I want (or need) to make and resolve to follow through on those changes.
Some old resolutions just vanished like melting snow because the goals they (not exempting myself) set were unattainable somehow. As I read the sharing of others, it didn’t really surprise me when they said they failed to keep those ‘I will do this and that’ lists. The truth of the matter is, we can’t change our life around a matter of weeks, it can take months and years to do it. The way to keep a New Year’s resolution is to pick a good specific goal, small or big, and then overhaul our life to in order to meet it. Duh.
HAPPY 2009!
I had purposely stopped making New Year’s resolutions because I kept breaking them. Yet, despite it all, I’m making a resolution this year and I’m putting hope above experience. I said, it’s just “a resolution” and that is TO KEEP RESOLUTIONS. Shallow? I guess not; I’m just trying to be a bit vague to determine what resolution means to me. “Resolutions are better done than said.”
It’s gonna be a tough mission to take corrective action this 2009. However, whatever craziness happens to my routine, I’ll try to enjoy the ups and downs of it. I may manifest doubts (obliviously), but I always believe I have wonderful way of seeing the bright side of everything. If a wrench gets thrown in my plans, I’ll catch it with grace and build something amazing with it!
Here’s another year of working hard and having fun at the same time, CHEERS! HAPPY NEW YEAR!
Winter Solstice
December 20, 2008 at 9:42 pm | In Oh! Life, Simply Blogging, Thoughts Horizon | 9 CommentsTags: hopes, solstice ritual, Winter Solstice, Yule, Zen Garden
As I start to think about the year to come, I feel the energy nudging me to get back to myself. I’m starting to review my hopes and figure out some new things to do. This introspection mode is the influence of the Winter Solstice that arises on December 21, 2008.
As the light returns in this sacred season, May you find abundant happiness and joy.
Winter Solstice is the longest night and darkest time of year in the North of the Equatorial zones, when the days are short and the nights are long and lonely. The day of the Winter Solstice is also called “The Birthday of the Unconquered Sun” or simply the Yule. Though it marks the beginning of Winter, it also signposts the beginning of a new Solar Year.
For years, people assumed that there was a psychological effect of this time of year on many. But since I, myself, experienced the effect, I can say that it’s not only psychological but it is also physiological. Astronomers call the phenomenon Seasonal Affect Disorder (SAD)- a real reaction of the body, and thus linked to the mind, of low light levels. However, despite these low light levels, Winter Solstice reminds us that darkness never lasts forever. It marks a central part of nature’s cycle- It is a time of new growth and renewal. It is a reminder that in order to begin anew, the old must end.
We often speak of getting through the winter and surviving it, rather than understanding the true pith hidden in the long dark months of the year. Solstice is actually encouraging us to slow down and do some soul searching. So take some time out from the seasonal mania to envision your life in the coming year.
And what am I gonna do on that night? I will be dancing, tumbling, doing an aerial cartwheel in the Zen Garden at least in my head during my midwinter night’s dream. I will envision that this Channel of Life will carry me to my destination, no matter what happens along the way. And as a part of my solstice ritual, I will try to let go of all that WAS, folding the 2008 journey book.
So- mark your calendar, greet the new dawning, join the day of reinvention and try to metamorphosize on Wonderful Winter Solstice.
Keep Looking Up!
On Tranquilizer
December 13, 2008 at 1:15 am | In Oh! Life, Simply Blogging, Thoughts Horizon | 7 CommentsTags: heart, inspirational thoughts, life, tranquilizer
I thought of these a few moments ago before going to bed thinking of the things that happened to me this week.
Pathetically I admit, my momentum is zero. I always thought that I could hit three birds with one stone. I couldn’t. As I press forward in life, it also becomes more and more knotty.
I’ve been toiling with this language that is no longer pleasing to my ears and to my maxilla-mandible. I wish I could say “Oh, how I love this language as much as I would love to study French or Greek.” I’m still digging deep within to see if I could hoist my momentum with my own illusory winch. Then I finally had to acknowledge the fact that I really don’t have motivation for this thing. I’m following a path but my heart is not in it. I know because I am not inspired… not motivated naturally.
For the meantime, I guess all I need to do is to shut my pooped out wit and live for the moment; gotta follow the lead of my soul to calm my vibes.
I may be at the end of my tether but through these fights (against all odds), I believe that I’m developing the inmost strength of my heart.
Have a Pleasant Weekend, mates!
Say My Name, Say My Name!
December 5, 2008 at 11:38 pm | In Simply Blogging, Thoughts Horizon | 5 CommentsTags: Behind the name, names, onomastics, thoughts
C'mon Cinnamon!
Most of us perhaps have asked our parents about the meaning or origin of our names. Some of us are named after our parents’ favorite celebrities, famous or great people in the history, after our grandfather or grandmother, the blending of our father’s-mother’s names, etc. But still most people have a fuzzy idea what their own names mean. Why? Because some parents just name their children for the sake of ‘namesake’.
I was having a conversation with two of my former classmates (Randy and Julia) the other day when Randy said “Please do me a favor…just call me ‘R’. I never liked my name.” Julia snaply said “I don’t like my name either.”
RANDY: Well, in England when somebody calls you ‘randy’, you are regarded as ‘sexually aroused or horny’ human being. Can you imagine being laughed at when you introduce yourself with that name? My parents just picked a name that they like and stuck me with it. They didn’t even bother to look it up in a dictionary. Oh how I wish they had consulted just one dictionary, any dictionary. But no!
My casual remark… You were just a babe in arms. How could they consult you if you couldn’t even say ‘mama’?
JULIA: I hate my name, even as a little kid. My parents could’ve at least named me “Julie.” They even have to phonate it ‘Jul-yah’. It sounds dull and stuffy.
My casual remark… Consider yourself lucky for not having the surname “Gulia”. Try greeting somebody- “Hi! I’m Julia Gulia.” This actually reminds me of the Wedding Singer (Drew Barrymore kept parroting “Hi! I’m Julia Gulia… Hi! My name is Julia Gulia.”)
With all these name nitpickings, I encourage every parent to check the meaning of your favorite name in several languages before inflicting that on your child. You don’t wanna be nagged by your kids while they grumble “What were my parents thinking when they named me?”
You don’t need to take up onomastics to learn the different etymologies of names. I’ve learned a thousand of names and their meanings from Mike Campbell’s names database at Behindthename.com. Search for your name!
Blog test, blog test
September 25, 2008 at 2:31 pm | In Simply Blogging | 2 CommentsTags: blogging
Since I am still relatively new to this blog, and many of you have likely been here for a while, I want to get to know the ‘hows’ of this site.
I’m letting my ‘gray matter’ relax just for a while for the sake of blogosphere. This is just a day when I can turn my brain down to a low simmer, and let myself focus more on simple things. My intellectualizing is done (only for today), so it’s time to kick back. My brain deserves a bit of a vacation, so I’m doing the mindless things I like to do with extra gusto today- I’ve watched a film, gone out for a meandering walk, flipped through some magazines and right at this moment- staring at the clear blue sky through the window glass while keying this very first entry. There’s no harm in being a simpleton just for a day, is there?
I’m starting a series of posts about life- lessons- legacy, and of course my travelogues or ‘anything under the sun’ topics depending on how blogsessive I am about particular subjects.
The Tea Cup Story
September 27, 2008 at 5:05 pm | In Simply Blogging | 2 CommentsTags: hardship, inspirational stories, success, tea cup story, tea cups
Let me ask you a question, are you perhaps wondering, “what in the world is God doing in my life right now?” Have you ever wondered that? You are not alone. We all feel like that from time to time.
Hope you’ll also learn from this story. I really dunno who the author is of this work but I first heard this story shared by a famous minister at one of her conferences. This is supposed to be a review but it’s worth blogging anyway and I wanted to share it with all of you.
There was a couple who loved to visit England and shop in the beautiful stores. They both liked antiques and pottery, especially tea cups. One day in a tiny shop they saw an exquisite tea cup. “Oh! May we look at that one?” they asked. “We’ve never seen one quite so beautiful.” As the lady handed it to them, suddenly the tea cup spoke: “I haven’t always been a tea cup, you know. There was a time when I was raw, ugly clay. But my master picked me up, molded me and squeezed me over and over until I cried out, ‘Let me alone!’ But he only smiled, ‘Not yet.’
“Then he placed me on a wheel,” the tea cup continued,” and suddenly I was spun around and around and around. ‘Stop it! I’m getting dizzy!’ I screamed. But the master said, ‘Not yet.’
“Next he put me in the oven. I never imagined such heat. I wondered why he wanted to incinerate me, and I yelled and knocked at the door. I could see him through the window and I could read his lips as He shook his head, ‘Not yet.’
“Finally the door opened. He took me out of the oven and put me on the shelf to cool. ‘There, that’s better,’ I breathed.
“But my relief didn’t last very long, because the next thing I knew, he was brushing me and painting me all over. The fumes were horrible. I thought I would gag.
‘Stop it, stop it!’ I begged. He only nodded, ‘Not yet.’
“Then suddenly he put me back into the oven, but this was much worse than the first time. This time the oven was twice as hot and I knew that I would suffocate. I begged. I pleaded. I screamed. I cried. All the time I could see him through the opening shaking his head saying, ‘Not yet.’
“Then I realized there was no hope. I would never make it. I was ready to give up.”
“At that moment, the door finally opened and he took me out and set me gently back on the shelf. Then, an hour later he handed me a mirror and said, ‘Now look at yourself.’
“Curiously I peered into the mirror–and gasped at my reflection, “That’s not me!” I exclaimed, “It can’t be me! It’s beautiful!”
‘I want you to understand,’ he said, ‘that I know how much it hurts to be molded and shaped, but if I had stopped, you would have dried into an ugly lump of clay. I know that it made you dizzy to spin around on the wheel, but if I had stopped, you would have crumpled. I know that it hurt and was hot and disagreeable in the oven, but if I hadn’t put you there, you would have had no strength. I know that the fumes were terrible when I brushed and painted you, but if I hadn’t done that, you would have never reached your potential, nor would you have developed your own beautiful character. And if I hadn’t put you back into the oven the second time, you would have eventually leaked and your color would have faded away. But now you are a strong, beautiful teacup fit for use at the finest table.’
“You are now what I had in mind when I first formed you.”
Perhaps, like this tea cup, you feel like an old, hard, cold lump of clay. Perhaps you feel you are on a wheel that has gone round and round and round, and you have gotten dizzy and sick to your stomach from the circumstances that seem to surround you. Perhaps you feel like you are in that oven, that the door has closed and you cannot stand the heat any longer. Perhaps you have been set aside, put up on the shelf, waiting, and no one knows you are there. Perhaps you feel that you have been put back into the furnace and the heat has been revved up seven times hotter. You are being purified, tested and tried. God may be choosing you for higher ministry in the furnace of affliction.
“Don’t run away from your ugly or difficult circumstances because later on you’re gonna appreciate those circumstances. We don’t change in easy times, we change in hard times.”
The Chivalrous Libra
September 29, 2008 at 2:51 pm | In Simply Blogging | 2 CommentsTags: Don Quixote, Miguel de Cervantes
Miguel de Cervantes, the author of one of the most important works of modern literature, Don Quixote, was born on this day in Spain (1547). He entered earth as Jupiter Sextiled Neptune, an influence which draws extraordinary possibilities into one’s life. Hence, it’s not surprising that the writer’s fanciful, farcical tale of a man obsessed by chivalry has been inspiring authors, writers and musicians for more than four centuries (it was an overnight success upon publication). Drawn to deep philosophical perceptions about life and people, this fair-minded Libra (just like me) with his Jupiter in Pisces had a natural interest in the life of the underdog, which clearly played out in the faithful friendship between the Knight of La Mancha and his servant Sancho as they move from one failed adventure to another, chapter after chapter in this legendary tome.
Changeologist: The Change Challenger
October 6, 2008 at 6:36 am | In Thoughts Horizon | Leave a CommentTags: challenges, changes, inspirational stories, positive outcomes
When I skimmed the word ‘changeology’ through the dictionary, I didn’t find a match on the word. Then I asked, ‘why not rope this word in my own vocabulary since I always love the idea of change?’
When people hailed me as a ‘chameleon’, I took it positively. However, I prefer being called a ‘changeologist’ which for me is a more substantial term. We know for a fact that a chameleon is a lizard that has the ability to change color, and why does it change its color? To camouflage itself from the harmful enemies and significantly, to adapt itself to its environment. Metaphorically, when a person is described as chameleon, the reference to the animal is generally a commentary on the person’s ability to blend into various social situations and the ability to fit or adjust himself to the ever-changing world.
For anyone who is tired of the status quo and interested in living a different life, the solution is change! It may be that you’re tired of the place you work, hairstyle, crazy lifestyle, bad habits/ attitudes, or rutty routines. It may be that you’re interested in living in a different part of the country. Or it may be that you’re entertaining thoughts of losing weight and living a healthier life. The list is endless, but if you’re serious about making these thoughts become your reality, then change must be a part of your future. As that old saying so aptly states, “If you keep doing what you’ve always done… you’ll keep getting what you’ve always got!”
Change is the one true constant in life. It has no boundaries, it challenges us all and it frightens many of us. But without change life is static – we cannot grow and we cannot learn. There is no progress and we will not evolve. But change is often challenging, so embracing change takes courage.
The force of change shakes up our comfort zone and puts pressure on us to re-examine long held beliefs that force us to let go of the things in life that no longer work for us. Death, divorce, job loss, financial difficulties… are formidable changes to wrap our heads and hearts around, yet the more we resist, the more difficult the changes become. The future belongs to those who not only accept change, but embrace it. Though being on the front end of change isn’t for the faint of heart.
Resisting change will only make you miserable over the inevitable. I have worked hard with the phenomenon of ‘change myself’, finally realizing that there isn’t a thing I can do to stop it. I now look at change as transformative and as constant as the seasons. My perspective has evolved from pure fear to a sense of adventure.
One of the most productive ways to embrace change is to approach it positively, believing that the outcome will be for the highest good, whether we want to change or not. Open your mind to contemplate what benefits could come of the new reality. The more optimistic we are, the more the universe allows us to experience new opportunities in life. Change keeps us evolving toward our highest goals and enlightens us as to why we are here on this earth.
If you are able to see or intuit changes coming your way you can grasp and work with them more effectively. More often than not the winds of change are breathed to us through gut feelings, déjà vu and synchronistic events. When you listen, you are rewarded with possibilities. When we ignore these signs we run the risk of suffering circumstances that are dumped into our lap.
Some find embracing change tougher than others. When unexpected change seems too merciless to even contemplate, look for support. Find a role model or a personal change hero, who is going though or has done what you need to do. Make a collage of this person and yourself surrounded by images that represent the changes and positive words or phrases. Look at your collage daily, reflect on the good things that have happened in the past, to regain trust that your future will include more positive experiences.
Meditate on potential positive outcomes instead of worrying about worst case scenarios, when change forces its way into your life. Instead of wallowing in the negative, why not try wallowing in the information for a while, to insure that decisions made in the face of change lead to a preferred future reality.
In conclusion, when fate steps in and rocks your life, get excited about the possibilities, use your sense of adventure, and look for the joy of growth, because in the end, “Change always takes us where we need to be!”
Nothin’ Sweet About Me (My Oxymoron)
October 9, 2008 at 4:10 pm | In Simply Blogging, Thoughts Horizon | 2 CommentsTags: altruism, helping hands, poems, sweet about me
Everytime I get out of my shell,
I always have to ring my mind’s bell.
And utter: “I’ve got to help somebody today.”
I say this as if it’s my last day.
Simply reaching out-
This, ALTRUISM is all about.
No selfish concern,
Neither points to earn,
Never expecting somethin’ in return.
Just the joy of my heart,
And symbolically, the flickering flame of my hearth.
I’m over my sweet self and made a vow long before,
To always do good to others here or offshore,
That I may at all times stay grounded
And substantially be joy-girthed.
With My Smile (”,)
Bad Bad and Bad Habits
October 14, 2008 at 8:39 pm | In Oh! Life, Simply Blogging, Thoughts Horizon | Leave a CommentTags: bad habits, decisions, health, smoking
Bad habit? I have a bunch of that and I just hate it! I’ve encountered bad habits along my way. Bad habits such as smoking, unhealthy relationship, procrastination (my worst habit ever), going to bed late, eating too much or making bad decisions etc., letting go of one of these is such a struggle. The roadblocks you encounter can seem insurmountable at the time, but once you’ve let the habit go once and for all, you can’t imagine ever having had it in the first place!
These simple tips can somehow help you put those bad habits into rest:
Try, try again
Maybe you even gave your bad habit up a couple of times before finally kicking it – and that’s okay. When you come to the realization that there is something that no longer serves you, the tendency is to make a quick break and cut it out without regard for the reasons as to why the habit developed in the first place. By doing this, you run the risk of picking it up again.
Instead, look consciously at your habit. What triggers you wanting to do it? Keep a log of your emotional triggers related to the habit to get a better understanding of it. For instance, if you started smoking when you were a rebellious teen and are now trapped in an addictive pattern that you’d like to be free of, try addressing your original intent and if you decide it no longer serves you, let it go in your mind. Then speak it out loud, write it down and release it.
Visualize and scribe
Take more time to concentrate inward on how you feel when you think about quitting. Do you feel panic… relief… calm? Pay attention to your reactions and even write them down. Focus on making peace with them. Next, visualize yourself living your life “bad habit free.” Now think about what that feels like. Probably pretty good! Now tell the story of your new (habit free!) life in your journal.
Set a date
To seriously quit something, pick a reasonable date and commit to it. Then keep in mind that one slip does not mean that you’re a failure – it means you’re learning how to get it right! Don’t fall into the trap of thinking that one bad step puts you back at the bottom of the mountain – it doesn’t! That’s part of climbing and you may fall several more times before reaching your goal.
Regardless of the bad habit that you’re struggling with remember that you are on a path of learning. Remember to honor yourself through the process and don’t be overly critical. Let go of unrealistic expectations. Look for the underlying reason you are drawn to things. Then accept yourself, flaws and all, as you reveal and let go of the things that no longer work in your life. Good luck!
How Do You Influence Others?
October 17, 2008 at 6:24 pm | In Simply Blogging | Leave a Comment
Oceans, rivers, streams … It’s all connected. So, no matter how small or how insignificant, every little stone changes things. Are you making a difference in the world?
Whether you’re trying to influence others or not, your actions everyday affect lives. You don’t have to be a “person of influence” to be influential (from Scott Adams). Probably, you’re not even aware of the things you’ve taught others or the people around you. The example you set, good or bad, big or small, your life affects the world. Everything you say and do is the length and shadow of your own soul, your influence is determined by the quality of your being. So, what kind of influence are you having?
Remember, you are an influential person.
So, unleash the titan in you.
Patience
October 18, 2008 at 6:57 pm | In Oh! Life, Simply Blogging, Thoughts Horizon | Leave a CommentTags: happy life, patience, virtue of patience
Many of us consider patience a virtue. It is useful in many aspects of life such as work, family and friendships. Patience can prevent people from making impromptu and possibly regrettable decisions. Patience is the ability to count down before you blast off.
Generally, I am a peaceful person even if I have my moments of impatience. However, I have learnt that I have to stay calm and let time decide upon things, I still am on the process. There are moments when I dream to have one thing or another but I can’t have all what I want that certain instant. I have understood that in life one has what he wishes to at the timely moment even if one should wait more for that precise dream to come true. I have to admit that I still need somebody to pat me and say, “Take it easy” when I’m possessed by the “I want it now!” phantom. 
Oftentimes, I would rationalize that it’s not about being impatient; It’s doing or getting things I want, promptly without procrastination. But let me just talk about patience right now.
Patience— Imagine a situation, you’ve been suppressing yourself from pulling somebody’s hair or slapping her or his face just because your emotion is brimming with annoyance. Imagine, you have to check something important through the internet but your line is in the turtle mood, whoah! you just wanna pound the computer on the floor and rip its parts out. You know the feeling, you’re in a rush for the doctor, work, classes or whatever… and the car ahead of you is going slow as molasses. Honking gets your anger out momentarily, but you’re still stressed over the delay that this slow-mo elephant of an auto is causing you. You’ve got one eye on the road and the other on the dashboard clock, calculating just how late this delay is going to make you.
You want to scream – and maybe you do, within the safe confines of your car. But your stress level is going through the moonroof, raising your blood pressure, messing with your hormones and ripping at your nerve… and that’s not good. So what should you do in a scenario like this to avoid rage and the torturing of your well-being?
Try these five easy steps:
1) Reason with yourself
Run the idea through your mind that losing your patience will have absolutely no effect on the results – other than raising your blood pressure. Exercise patience (and deep breathing), your anger and frustration will evaporate and a peaceful feeling will shroud you instead.
2) Let go
Stop raging over being in your unfortunate situation. You can’t undo what has already been done.
3) Unwind
Relax your body. Unclench your jaw muscles, release the tightened tendons in your back, your shoulders and your neck.
4) De-frown
Apply the Kundalini yoga practice of observing the third eye. It’s located, cyclops-like, slightly above the midpoint between your eyebrows. It relaxes the muscles in your eyes, your brows and forehead (and a fabulous side effect is the decreasing of that vertical frown line you wish you’d never inherited!).
5) Breathe-easy
So, how is your body reacting so far? If you’re breathing shallowly, consciously try practicing deep long breaths. Unclench your fists. Imagine your body loosening up, like a knot that’s been untied. Breathe into those spaces in your body that feel tight. It’s hard to be impatient when you slow down your breathing.
If you apply these to any of life’s stressful situations, you’ll find yourself happier and much better able to let the day’s numerous annoyances flow down your back.
Criticism Factor
October 20, 2008 at 7:18 pm | In Oh! Life, Simply Blogging, Thoughts Horizon | Leave a CommentAgainst criticism a man can neither protest nor defend himself; he must act in spite of it, and then it will gradually yield to him.-Johann Wolfgang von Goethe
criticism
It’s always noteworthy how some people pay no heed to negative personal comments, some take them constructively, whereas others seem to be immediately shattered or upset by them. This thought came to mind as I was reading a book the other day. The best-selling author emphasized the degree of hatred some people have for him. Every time he received scornful and mocking emails, he would always say that those criticisms didn’t really bother him. He said that he didn’t take them personally. He then concluded, “I don’t give people the power to upset or hurt me.” This statement prompted me to blog this piece today.
The truth of the matter is I used to be a kind of person who easily reacted to negative criticisms. But I said to myself, “If I would always react to those devastating criticisms, I would only cripple and poison my optimistic nous.” Negative criticism provokes us regularly in our lives, and it either bothers you or it doesn’t. It’s all up to you how to handle denigration. You can choose to ignore negative comments and hurtful criticisms or be devastated emotionally.
Try not to break down when you are personally attacked or criticized. Never let negativity just roll off you, just be more stable and create a peaceful state of mind. Give less power to the people who have something bad to say about you! Nobody can bring you down without your own consent.
How Do I Get Out Of a Rut?
October 22, 2008 at 8:02 pm | In Oh! Life, Simply Blogging, Thoughts Horizon | Leave a CommentTags: adventure, boredom, enjoying life, out of a rut
Every time I get messages from folks and friends, I am always asked-
“How do you get out of a rut?” You seem like a happy-go-lucky person, who never cares about problems.” Who on earth doesn’t have any problems? Only the dead, I guess.
To answer the question, I’m living a calm but unusually fast paced life. And it seems to me that I’m always chasing after the golden time. It’s exhausting but I’m lovin’ it (like the way I love McDonalds ).
Whenever I feel the calmness is bothering me, ironically speaking, I get out and mix things up! Of course some, if not everybody, wants to have a delightfully calm lifestyle, but it turns out that’s not exactly what I wanted, after all. A growing part of me is always longing for some adventure, some conflict, some drama (but not the cry-baby drama)… something I can really sink my teeth into. Don’t get me wrong, it sounds weird but I’m sober. It’s just that, for me, a calm life is dangerously close to a boring life. So, what do I normally do to make my existence more interesting? I mix my regular routine up and get together with some fresh faces by talking to strangers, let’s say on the train, library, malls or anywhere I can find somebody to bug, (chuckles). What’s more, to increase chances for excitement, I change my surroundings by simply going to a place I’ve never been to; may it be trekking cities by train until I get lost. Planning a travel, taking a lift on the elevator from the basement to the rooftop or even a trip to the park or forest could yield some fun. There’s a lot to say on behalf of living a very structured and ordered life, but that doesn’t mean that we can’t go a little “haywire” every once in awhile.
Learn how to get out of a rut and enjoy life! There are several different methods you can employ to achieve gettin out of a rut.
Silence Please…
October 26, 2008 at 3:42 pm | In Oh! Life, Simply Blogging, Thoughts Horizon | 7 CommentsTags: daily life, horizon, Silence
With all of the collective demands and commotion we deal every day, it’s no small wonder that silence has become an increasingly rare commodity in our lives. Obligations like work, school, family, social life and the like; all these are relentlessly tugging us away from our own self. Even that 24-hour-phase seems not enough to accomplish tasks in just a day. Day after day, we rush and hurry all day long. We don’t even notice the chirping of the birds.
If you consider yourself a workaholic, you might be one of those who need to slow down. Maybe you’re just like me- when I work, I really work. I keep going and going until the day is gone. Consequently, I go home dog-tired.
Silence… To get some clarity, you need some isolation once in a while and things will fall into place beautifully, after meditation. There is no telling when you should embrace silence, but a glimpse may come anytime. Sometimes you have to step back and give yourself a break to see things within you. Sometimes, you’ve got to move away from things that are demanding so much of your time. Sometimes, to get enlightened, you need some quiet time.
When you turn your head from horizon to horizon your eyes see a vast space in which all the things of the earth and of the sky appear. But this space is always limited where the earth meets the sky. The space in the mind is so small. In this little space all our activities seem to take place: the daily living and the hidden struggles with contradictory desires and motives. In this little space the mind seeks freedom, and so it is always a prisoner of itself. Hence, give yourself a space to meditate when your mind has lost its little space. Meditate upon silence, then, when you become aware of silence, immediately there is that state of inner still attentiveness. In silence, you can recharge your batteries and re-energize yourself.
This silence at this very moment, this is what I need and it’s genuinely inside me. Sitting quietly, and listening to a voice… I hear silence speaks. I believe profoundly in silence; it’s the sign of equilibrium. It’s the absolute poise of mind and spirit. Through silence, I believe that I can preserve my selfhood ever calm and unshaken by the storms of existence.
Soupçon of Hitlerism
October 30, 2008 at 11:43 am | In Adventures, Travelogues | 6 CommentsTags: german language, Travelogues
Since last week, I’ve been whining about the pain in my left leg and thigh. Having been to the hospital with all the scans/x-ray, I fret that there’s something wrong with my leg. Only the jogging, as far as I remember, could cause the pain. I can walk but with a limp and with the pain. And not to be exaggerated, the pain is like the instigated fury of Nazi Hitler, mercilessly piercing my nerves. The painkiller’s effect that the doctor prescribed could only slog for few hours. Sleepless nights smudged me with raccoonic eyes. When I went to my own doctor the next day, she gave me an alternative medicament. She said that the pills she recommended were much better and ‘harsher’ than the ones they prescribed in the hospital. Surely, the medicine was far much nerve-hitting that I even got overdosed!
Upshotly, I missed my classes and stayed home and calling in sick to work was another disaster. On top of that, I’ve already bought ticket to Germany (got to use it on Friday). I just pray that nothing’s gonna stand in my way.
Forget about the aching leg, essentially, the trip would mean meeting friends halfway. Silke, my German classmate turned friend, has been looking forward to see me again. Aside from the stuff that I’ve prepared for the trip, here’s a very short German crash course that I browsed through. It’s actually equipped by Hitler, kiddingly
If you wanna learn more on pronunciation, click this link: german phrases
My Trip to Germany
November 5, 2008 at 12:38 pm | In Adventures, Travelogues | 4 CommentsTags: Germany, Travelogues, trips
Welcome to the Land of Einstein
Germany was just one of the amazing countries I have visited here in Europe. I spent few days there and was hosted by my German friend. Despite the short span of time, Silke and I did a lot of stuff including walking and running just to catch the intercity trains. Twice we did almost miss the train- just when we stepped in, the train doors closed and the railway tracking began.
Historic Germany has much to offer including mountains, marvelous scenery, picturesque villages and castles. The best time to travel there is between May and September. I should have thought about this. And once again, I realized that I’ve travelled in the edgy season- windy, downy-dark, foggy, dry autumn. The weather didn’t hinder us though from enjoying the outdoor bustles such as visiting cafes, strolling and shopping.
Instead of putting the narration down, I think it is better to mount some photos.
Gauging Moment
November 8, 2008 at 1:30 am | In Simply Blogging, Thoughts Horizon | 4 CommentsTags: career, challenges, health, making choices, moments, self- reinvention
Adulthood: unnumbered strange things happen when one reaches this stage.
So what constitutes maturity, and thus adulthood? Adulthood is not based on official age; it’s based strictly on maturity in all aspects (emotionally, physically and spiritually).
When you reach a certain age in your life, you sometimes realize that what you always wanted isn’t really what you want anymore and I’m not talking about being fickle-minded. The desire you’ve always clamped to be a doctor, teacher or educator, actor, lawyer, dentist, banker or whatever may fall by the wayside when you uncover that your passion was idealized or that the daily grind of your career isn’t as gratifying as you had foreseen.
Maybe you actually loved your job as a teacher until you decided to have your own family and found that the long hours spent on your paper works socked a familial chord in you that just couldn’t be disregarded. Maybe you were a successful businessman or banker who realized that writing is actually your passion. Or you were a dentist who discovered that your ardour is of language and not of the chopper-teeth.
Whether you like it or not, you will be passing from one development stage of life to another. Sometimes you detour; sometimes you march through life crossroads. As we mature, our needs change. You may even notice that there is this inner call for change that steers you to deliberate those “What ifs?” thoughts that are bugging you.
If self-reinvention has been on your mind, defy yourself to a life evaluation. Whatever is vexing you the most (changing career, health, relationships, family, etc.) challenge yourself to fix and tend to it or them. Let’s say you’re on the verge of career transition; ask yourself these questions:
A) What’s important to you about your work and career? Is it the praise, the need to help others? The income?
B) What are you doing to actualize your goals? Would you rather invest in the time needed to embark on a new professional journey… or would you prefer to be stuck at the same gig for the next five or 10 (or more) years?
These queries will give you a clearer idea of the direction you should take for the next phase of your life. Snatch the bridles and track the path that you’ve always wanted to take.
Smelly cat, Smelly cat!
November 9, 2008 at 11:18 pm | In Simply Blogging, Thoughts Horizon | 9 CommentsTags: friends, Germany, phoebe, smelly cat
I’ve known Silke for almost two years; she was my classmate and seat mate in a language course last year. While we were chatting one day in our class, I told her she looked like Phoebe (the fictional character of Lisa Kudrow from F.R.I.E.N.D.S.) ‘How many times have I heard that before’ she replied. She has actually a strong physical resemblance to Phoebe in some angles. She’s tall, she’s blondine and she smiles like Phoebe.
In spite of the cultural differences, Silke and I became friends. Even when she has already moved back to Germany, she never gets tired of keeping in touch with me. Until one day, I went for the idea of visiting her. And we did see each other again.
One night, when we were having a tea break, I gagged and called her Phoebe. Her boyfriend nodded at me gesturing, ‘go on, pull her leg’. The tease didn’t bother Silke at all. ‘You know what? I even took the F.R.I.E.N.D.S. personality quiz (Which F.R.I.E.N.D.S character are you most like?)’ she added. And the result? Phoebe’s personality matched hers. We burst into uncontrollable laughter while listening to her add on stories. Phoebe and Silke both play the guitar, too. Being a jester, I even made fun of her peculiar guitar skill and always kidded her by singing Phoebe’s favorite song or shall I rather call it a chant: Smelly Cat, Smelly Cat…
As you may or may not know, Phoebe’s somewhat dubious musical skills were a popular source of entertainment. Her stunning array of songs include “Bisexuals”, “Sue, Sue, Suicide”, “Sticky Shoes”, “Ode to a Pubic Hair (Little Black Curly Hair)”, and most famously “Smelly Cat”, which became both a jingle for a kitty litter commercial (not sung by her) and a serious commercial release (also not her singing).
Unlike Phoebe, Silke (the Phoebe of Germany) is not a popular celebrity, but as to my own perception, she and Phoebe are equally hilarious, smart and eccentrically quirky. Phoebe- from F.R.I.E.N.D.S.; Silke- one of my sweetest friends .
Barfing out Mediocrity
November 17, 2008 at 2:38 pm | In Simply Blogging, Thoughts Horizon | 7 CommentsTags: dreams, mediocrity, thoughts
Lately I’ve been feeling a bit different due to some obscure thoughts. The feeling of helplessness made me feel like I’m struggling to get out of the quicksand. I asked myself, ‘Why am I feeling this way?’ It’s because I’m brimming with goals and dreams. My expectations towards myself are just too high that I get disappointed when I don’t get things my way.
There’s also this voice that keeps scolding me and echoing within me, ‘Yeah, you have your goals, but are you helping yourself to bring them to fruition?’ This self- conversation didn’t stop until I took in the fact that I’m not really doing my best to actualize my goals. I seem and sound to be wise when I write or talk about ‘Ways to Fulfill Your Goals’ but didn’t I realize I was actually talking about myself?
I’ve got to try to take some time to determine what my true goals and priorities really are. Then I have to be ready to give them everything I’ve got. I just need to remind myself to keep my goals very clear and never let myself be deterred by any opposition right now. I’ve been licking the lollipop of mediocrity for too long and it is no longer excellent to my taste bud or to my eyes. Enough is enough. It’s time for me to fuel up.
Mediocrity sucks
PURReminiscence
November 19, 2008 at 11:43 pm | In Simply Blogging | 6 CommentsTags: cats, kitty, pets
Year 2005, CHINA
Dear Diary,
After raising a baby girl, I got myself a baby boy again. This time it’s tougher because he’s really tiny, fragile one. I really dunno how to shut his mouth whenever I hear him cry sounding like he’s gonna die! And since I don’t want to be disfigured, I have to bottle-feed him. He’s only 3 week old. I’m the only one who’s looking after them. I always murmur that I’m already overloaded by work and here I am, trying to nurse another one. The grown up isn’t even cooperative; she’s green- eyed whenever she sees me cuddling this tiny one. She hisses like a snake every time I let the baby sleep with her.
The first time I brought the baby boy home and laid him on her crib, she was so mad! Distracted, she stepped out, never got inside the flat, she was moping to the max. And I could hardly imagine how she managed her self-declared “hunger- strike”. She missed her meals for two days. I even had to carry her to her own crib but still she strayed; she saw the little one being laid on her bed and she hated it!
It took me time to pacify the two. “Baby girl, please don’t get ratty; you’re still my baby. You have to accept that you’ve got a brother now. You’re gonna enjoy his company, I promise.” These lines I usually uttered to her. She listened (“,)
Now, they’re playmates!
I’m still learning the rope to motherhood. I tried to give the best for the first one and I’m taking on the nanny and maid chores at the moment to the little one. I wished I had my Brad Pitt who could adopt these poor earthlings (wahahahaha! Angelina Jolie’s BP). Wellas, with or without a BP, I can manage to be a single mother to my two babies, my purry kitcats- Molly and Toby.
Used to be my babies, Molly and Toby (2005, CHINA)
I’ve been keeping this diary or journal to remind me about my kitties I had with me when I was living in China. Since I had to leave to follow another lane of life, I asked a friend to adopt these two cats of mine. While I was on my way to the adopter’s place, the kitties kept on meowing; I could hear their cries, especially Toby’s. I knew he was begging me not to leave them. He kept clawing me and meowing ‘Please don’t give us away.’ This scenario was like eating my own heart. I know they are just pets but they became a part of me, an extension of my personality and soul. They put smile on my face and warmth in my heart. How have they been now? I wonder…
Once again, I bid FAREWELL to Molly and Toby and to my childhood sweetcats. Let me roll out the red carpet for my new paw- claw full, furry kitten. You’ll know more about him anon.
As a Friend…
November 22, 2008 at 6:45 pm | In Simply Blogging | 5 CommentsTags: decisions, friends, listening
One of the hardest things to do in life is to listen without intent to reply.
When friends need your guidance and when they are in the midst of making a decision, and they need to have a sanity check with you, make time for them.
Be prepared for long conversations that don’t go anywhere but around in circles. As a friend, you need to be a good listener and a good cheerleader — just like they have been for you in the past. Stay patient and positive. You can help them just by being yourself and being there for them.
To envisage the ATLANTIS Resort
November 20, 2008 at 9:48 pm | In Simply Blogging | 5 CommentsTags: Atlantis Resort, Palm Jumeriah
Year 2006, I was offered an administrative job in Dubai. The employer elaborated that the supervisory position had tough demands as I’d be tasked with overseeing one or more employees and traveling just to attend meetings. But before they could fill me in, the employer entailed that I should study the Arabic language first. To make this short, I didn’t pursue the job, despite the high starting salary. No regrets though.
Anyway, the topic here is not about the job. It’s about the ATLANTIS resort on the Palm Jumeirah island in Dubai. If I went in for the job, I could have witnessed the breath- taking opening of this five star hotel. The resort was completed on the 21st of September 2008.
The Atlantis Resort on Palm Jumeirah, Dubai UAE
Each of the 1,539 guestrooms and suites in the Royal Towers feature private balconies and views over the Gulf or The Palm Jumeirah. The $1.5 billion Atlantis Hotel costs $25,000 a night and boasts suites that feature floor-to-ceiling views of Dubai. For more info, visit the official site: ATLANTIS, The Palm.
Water adventures, salt and fresh water attractions and an open-air marine habitat are the focal point of the resort for both guests and visitors.
Some of the VIP guests who attended the event include Oprah Winfrey, Janet Jackson, Charlize Theron, Sir Richard Branson, Mischa Barton and Lindsey Lohan. Kylie Minogue has also performed her debut concert. The event included a light display that was illuminated onto the hotel and a total of 100,000 fireworks, around 7 times the amount that were used for the opening ceremony of the 2008 Beijing Olympics, which only lasted around 15 minutes.
The video below is the incredible footage of grand opening of the Atlantis hotel in Dubai. It shows the entire Palm Jumeirah lit up by fireworks at the climax of the evening.
Someday, in God’s will, I hope to experience the five star ambiance of the ATLANTIS hotel-resort and take a boat around the Palm Jumeirah.
DIS(appointment) too Shall Pass
November 27, 2008 at 7:41 pm | In Simply Blogging | 3 CommentsTags: disappointment, wisdom
You receive a letter and you find out that you passed the exam. But the result is not really satisfying. You blame yourself because you didn’t do your best or you might probably have done your best but you didn’t really put so much effort into getting the aimed or say your ‘wished’ score before the exam. Knocking your head once again.
Welcome, Disappointment! You just add salt to my life to make it more appetizing
The feeling is so excruciating, arrrgggghhh. Well, you can sit in a room blowing up black balloons while others don’t even care or know what’s going on with you, or you can get off your butt and start the step by step process of getting over it and moving on.
Okay, you get to wallow – for a short while. You get to be down for about a week or days. It stings but the feeling of disappointment shall pass.
Values that can be learned from this disappointment? You learn what doesn’t work and take it as an opportunity to try a new approach. And remember, ‘no expectations, no disappointments’.
By the way, the test isn’t over yet. Do something about it, will yah?
Christmas Party 2008, Abstemiously
November 30, 2008 at 9:00 pm | In Simply Blogging | 10 CommentsTags: Company Christmas Party, dresses, drinks, sober
As Christmas fast approaches, the notorious office or company party is getting into full swing. For some, it’s a time to enjoy a drink, a dance and a bit of networking. It’s also time to have fun, meet up with workmates and laugh the stress, chat and find out more about each other, sing and dance.
We had our Christmas party last Friday. There were a thousand of employees (no outsiders allowed) expected to join but only 300 something showed up. Nevertheless, the party was a real blast. With everyone smartly dressed up, it set the mood even more for an elegant party. Oh, being observed entering the hall was flattering too; I owe that to my pink dress;-) Despite the conventional ambiance, I and all the ladies at the party showed that we know how let our hair down. I had a good laugh with my colleagues and bosses, had a good time on the dance floor, and enjoyed taking photos as I was tasked with photographing. And good news, I didn’t get drunk!
I’ve behaved myself. I already embarrassed myself at the company party last year by gulping a half glass of white wine (47% volume). It was a stupid mistake though; I was profusely sweating after grooving and dancing along the band’s music that I got terribly thirsty. And so I drank the ‘what I thought water’. The next thing I knew, I was barfing and passed out (a grim scenario). Whatta hangover the following day! Stayed in bed the weekend. Going back to work on Monday was easy though because I always clutch the party motto that goes “what happens at the company Christmas party, stays at the Christmas party.” That’s what I thought… I became the center of tease but I kept my cool. I simply explained that it was a cracked mistake and I didn’t plan to get intoxicated that early, period.
Unlike last year, the company party of this year was a trim. I just had two slugs of Bailey and wine. I attempted to drink more but being with my clique was a grace. We actually made pact not to get drunk. And what about the empty tequila glasses?
Stay cool, no heavy alcohol, have a ball!
We just put the ball decors into the glasses and artistically and with etiquette, I formed a hearty- kitty design out of sweet cherry sauce using a bread and butter knife.
cherry saucy- hearty kitty
While the others were busy chatting and having glugs of spirits, my circle was busy amusing ourselves.
wackiness
By 9pm the big boss introduced the live band and those who had itchy feet started bopping on the dance floor. With my two cameras (one in hand and one on the shoulder), I spent most of my time filming and capturing the moments of partakers. By 10pm almost everyone was out of their heads. I had three bops and left. “Know when it’s time to leave. The longer you are there, the better chance you have to foul up.”
I went home sober
Have a ball at your Christmas party, everyone!
‘Oh, the JOHNNY’ thing
December 1, 2008 at 11:50 pm | In Simply Blogging | 5 CommentsTags: health, Johnny, World Health Organization
Whether this topic interests you or not, I hope you take a few minutes to read it. It will somehow update your knowledge about this fatal pandemic.
World Aids Day
Today in the class, we were assigned to translate a World AIDS Day 2008 Speech. “Why we are engaged in this kind of discussion. Don’t we suppose to review and train a bit for the exam or talk about Equality or Democracy?” Then suddenly, he started opening a pack of condom (dangling on the overhead projector), which was maybe shared out by World Health Organization (WHO) volunteers. He stirred the discussion by asking us why the condom was branded or named ‘JOHNNY’. Was/ Is it named after Johnny Depp, Johnny cash, or Johnny Knoxville? No need to elaborate our answers for these would just lead your thoughts away from what is considered good or normal. It is in actual fact the ‘Oh, the JOHNNY’ thing.
Anyway, here’s the English translation of the Speech:
WORLD AIDS DAY 2008
Today is December 1st- World Aids Day. With this speech, I let the millions of people, who live with the biggest risk and have fewest rights, be heard.
In 2008, 2.5 million people got infected with HIV, and more than 2 million people died of AIDS; killed by double standards and ignorance.
If you have been infected with HIV or is living with AIDS, you are met with prejudice that hits as hard as the disease that has knocked you down.
In 2008, there are still countries where men, who love men, are thrown in jail by their fathers, because they bring shame to the family.
Where grandmothers can do nothing but hold hands and watch their children and grandchildren get infected with HIV and die of AIDS right before their very eyes.
Where prejudice and ignorance keep others at a distance for fear of being infected by a kiss.
When it comes to life- threatening diseases, we know that prevention is far better than cure. With HIV and AIDS, it is different.
Maybe it’s because people in general do not contract the disease? Maybe it’s because research in prevention receives no grants? Maybe it’s because it’s a disease that hits people at their weakest without making the headlines?
Today, 95% of the gay men in the world do not have access to knowledge on prevention. Young people who live in an HIV- exposed environment are not receiving information, only lectures on sexual abstinence. Millions of HIV- positive people are not receiving any treatment, because they are regarded as less than nothing. Meanwhile, the disease is spreading like wild fire.
Each time 2 persons receive medical treatment, 5 new get infected. And the number of infected persons is also increasing in Europe.
If this inhuman epidemic is to be stopped, we must first accept the conditions of the disease and start treating and preventing HIV and AIDS with the same willpower that we direct to most of the other life- threatening diseases.
That we spread the knowledge, take the risk seriously and not just show compassion at the outbreak of the disease.
Everyone has the right to protection and treatment, to not getting infected and to be taken seriously by politicians, religions and scientists.
It is not fair that people in 2008 are getting infected with and die of a disease that we can actually prevent.
Let us make the world see and understand that prevention always is the best cure. Also with HIV.
THANK YOU FOR LISTENING.
BY: AIDS FOUNDATION
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